It was then, and there are major inconsistencies and contradictions associated with differences in attitudes and aspirations. I think that in examples have a specific need. Probably everyone in her life faced with a situation where to target, it would seem within reach, but because it is not in the interests and plans of others, as a result of her bold put cross. This problem is solved. The most effective way of solving this problem lies in understanding the very existence of other people having their own goals, understanding their aspirations for their own success and forming productive relationships with them in accordance with this understanding. Henry Chao has compatible beliefs. Without such an understanding of other people you just will not know what is productive in the relationship and what is not. Thus, we can state: understanding other people and ability to build relationships with them – is another essential factor for success.

Based on the foregoing, we can formulate the following conclusion: the success – the ability to person, knowing yourself, understanding others and build relationships with them so that, without engaging in conflicts and contradictions, deliberate volitional acts effectively achieve their goals. Summing up our conclusions, we summarize the following: we considered the three pillars – the main components of success in a person's life and brought a few definitions, fully reflecting the dependence of success on personal qualities. C abilities of the individual positions of the consideration of these three components of success can be formulated somewhat differently, namely as the ability to understand ourselves, other people, situations, relationships between people and the use of this understanding in line with the building of mutually creative interaction in the direction of certain goals.

Understand what you want to work with a psychologist dream of many, but are so often: "I'll help people. Will meet with good people, talk to them heart to heart and grow with them as a person. " For this you money will not pay. More complex, and difficulties begin with the study "to the psychologist, it is not easy and not always interesting. Typically, high school preparation involves first 1,5-2 years, the last three rate ceases to please the majority of studies: repetitions, the theory impractical knowledge. If you have additional questions, you may want to visit Chinese Martial art. Further, on the one you are going to learn? If the therapist, after graduating from the university with no work experience you are likely to take on very little money in the A social security for conversations with people who have something do not stack in your life. However, a psychologist – is not necessarily a psychotherapist, and do not necessarily lock themselves in helping people with mental difficulties. You might want to advise people with a lack of everyday experience in family relationships or child rearing, it is not psychotherapy and counseling.

And maybe you will attract job coach – it's a different format and skills. In any case, you should know: There are four main schools or direction in Applied Psychology: nlp, psychoanalysis, Gestalt approach and Sinton approach. They are different and one approach, experts often do not understand other specialists. To determine and meet with representatives of these schools, talk, look, look for her. Look closely at the work of the group If you are a person talented and successful, then I recommend you look at a group of psychological work.

Everyone knows that more keep up, you need to plan your time. Everyone knows that to lose weight need to eat less and move more. Everyone knows that to live a long and not get sick, need to quit. Everyone knows, but few delaet.Delo everything that every intention of 'External history' is useless without the corresponding 'internal history' of your success that lead you to bude .Esli you think you control your life and always act in their interests, then conduct a simple experiment – during the week to do just what you are good and profitable (do exercises, eat only healthy food, do not smoke, walk outdoors ). Only 7 days! Well, for fun! Hardly you will survive at least a couple of days! And it's not just 'old habits' or lack of willpower, this is your "inner history" literally dictate to you how you should behave and what decisions are taken in different situations. Realizing their internal constraints, people may try to change your life scenarios.

However, to do so is not easy. Unfortunately, the attempt to change their behavior through self-hypnosis, or by visualizing the desired no yielding results. To change your personal history, it is necessary to overcome three major obstacles: The first hurdle – your 'old' personal story is so voluminous and diverse that you need years of self-discipline, to notice any real change in .Vtoroe hurdle – your current Personal History has a very good reason for its existence – it ensures the integrity of your personality and helps navigate the variety of life (even if in reality it's more harm than good). This means that you should receive no less compelling reason to change it. The third obstacle – your 'visible' part of personal history has a huge 'invisible' part, which is hidden in the subconscious, and hence it is impossible to change only at the individual situation "here and now." In order to change the history of work, you must first deeply investigate the contents of your old stories and to understand the purpose of an existing life scenario.

And then purposefully modify the significance attached to the elements that the new story line with best Your life goals. Only then will you find and eliminate their main internal constraints that prevent you from achieving success in key areas of life – career, money, relationships, children, happiness, health, personal development. And then you will be able to replace their internal "leadership of inaction" on the new "Guide to action and begin to confidently approach their tselyam. you to create a personal history of success! Irina Mihalitsina

Nor all the people obtain to arrive at the top of the pyramid of necessities. Some people? favours to the life circumstances? they arrive if to worry strong about auto-accomplishment necessities; others park in the necessities of esteem; others still in the social necessities, while many others are busy exclusively with physiological necessities of security and, without they obtain to satisfy them adequately. They are the calls ‘ ‘ excludos’ ‘. 3.

When the necessities lowest are reasonable satisfied, the necessities located in the raised levels more start to dominate the behavior. However, when some necessity of lower level leaves of to be satisfied it comes back to predominate in the behavior, while it generates tension in the organism. The more pressing necessity most important or automatically monopolizes the individual to organize the mobilization of the diverse facultieses of the organism to take care of it. 4. Each person always possesss more than a motivation. All the levels jointly act in the organism, dominating the raised necessities more on lowest, since that these enough satisfied or are taken care of. All necessity closely is related with the state of satisfaction or insatisfao of other necessities.

Its effect on the organism is always global and joint and never isolated. 5. Any motivated behavior is as a canal for which many basic necessities can express be or satisfied jointly. 6. Any frustration or possibility of frustration of the satisfaction of certain necessities passes to be considered psychological threat. This threat is that it produces the general reactions of emergency in the human behavior. Freederick Herzberg (1959) developed the theory of the Two Factors of the Motivation, that identifies different factors as being basic in the satisfaction in the work, calls of Factors of Hygiene and Factors of Motivation. The excellent aspects of the work to the necessities of animal nature are called Hygienical factors.